Reddit user Quirky_Broccoli_842 recently posed the question, “How did you find out your partner was cheating on you?” Here are some of the stories shared by people, along with responses from the BuzzFeed Community:
1. “I met a guy at an Applebee’s bar who told me about a coworker who slept with two random guys at a work party – turns out it was my then-girlfriend. She tried to blame it on me.” – u/16bithockey
2. “While out with her and her best friend, her friend revealed to me that she was cheating. I started dating her friend, and we were together for almost seven years.” – u/macmac360
3. “A coworker saw her husband kissing another woman on a kiss cam at a sports bar. Turns out he was supposed to be at a client dinner that night.” – lunallee212
4. “I saw a picture of my ex in the newspaper holding hands with another woman at a concert. It was pretty clear what was going on.” – luckyangel30
5. “I checked his Google map history and found pictures of him with another woman. I have a lawyer appointment set for Tuesday.” – u/Silent_Wolf_1463
6. “She wanted to go on a trip to a swinger’s resort in Mexico with a friend, claiming they were the only ones without kids.” – u/Beamister
7. “I saw messages between her and her ex pop up on her phone while I was playing with her daughter.” – u/cory14
8. “I found a Snapchat message from another man on her phone while she was showing me a video of our daughter.” – u/Important_Focus2845
9. “His girlfriend in Chicago called me to say she was pregnant and had an STI. He had been lying about working with his dad up north on weekends.” – webbeccagoldfish
10. “I found a legal pad with a letter to another man that included ‘You have a tongue to die for.’ It was pretty clear what was going on.” – u/ftminsc
11. “The other guy messaged me after finding out they were still dating. They were coworkers at a pizza shop – I even helped her get the job.” – u/TyWiggly
12. “She asked me how I would react if she made out with someone else, ‘hypothetically.’ It was pretty obvious what was happening.” – u/TheCoolestFool7
13. “I saw a post on Instagram from her couple account with her new partner, even though we were still together.” – u/stuntmanm
14. “While transferring his dad’s phone info, I saw messages between him and his dad laughing about him cheating on me.” – u/pricklymae
15. “I found a hotel key card in her purse and a speeding ticket invoice with her 30 miles out of town with someone else.” – u/beanbagginz
16. “He brought a date to our house in front of our friends and claimed we never discussed being exclusive.” – u/PhiloPhocion
17. “My son called me by another man’s name, revealing that he knew about his mother’s infidelity.” – u/Quietrover
18. “He admitted to sleeping with six other men after I expressed my discomfort with open relationships.” – u/OneMorePotion
19. “He bought another woman a ring and claimed they were just friends when I questioned him.” – u/MPD1987
20. “She sang in a band about cheating on me with the lead singer in front of our friends.” – u/FLEXXMAN33
21. “I caught her kissing another guy while on a school trip, despite her knowing I was in the same city.” – Anonymous.
These stories shed light on the various ways people have discovered their partners’ infidelity.